Just for YOU.

 

When was the last time you told yourself Iloveyou / I believe in you / you're doing amazing?

Over a period, when we continuously scroll through social media, consume worldwide content, compare our lives to any random strangers on the internet. It is easy to forget how to love ourselves and appreciate ourselves being comfortable with our own lives.

Incase no one told you lately, let me tell you -

No body knows what it takes to be you.

No body knows what battles you fight in your head, 

what struggles you overcome to show up each day, 

what you have been through every single time, 

what you have felt at times,

how many times you have cried alone, 

how many times you have managed to pick yourself up and keep going,

how many times you have had to let go things that actually bothered to you. 

No body has any idea about it except YOU. 

So, its high time you start making choices for yourself - be it big or small, every single thing that makes you feel good.

Because at the end of the day, what only matters is how YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF, YOUR LIFE.

Reminding yourself that you have a point too. 

Your side of the story is valid as well

No matter how hard the outside world tries to bring you down, you have and will rise stronger.

As long as you don’t stop, you don’t lose. So learn to have faith in your timings.

 

However, at times, your inner world or thoughts could hurt you more than the world outside. 

By that I mean your inner critic, the voices inside your head & your mental blocks. 

Telling you that you're not good enough or you've wasted enough of time or people of your age are way ahead, feeling that you've not done anything suffice. 

A regret about the past lives/times is forever behind us unless something needs to be done about it.

Following that cycle, another stressful episode settles in.

But it's human to have thoughts like these,

Well here, all you need to do is understand that it's just a thought nothing else. 

Thoughts come and go like clouds in the sky.

The good part is you can either choose to continue this self-sabotage or rebuild your own strong, incredible side.

Which simply starts with,

Being patient with yourself, forgiving and learning from all the mistakes that you have made.

Focusing on what you actually really like and doing those things, navigating and creating what is true to you.

Anyways, it doesn’t have to be big or passionate stuff that everyone runs behind. 

It can be as small as choosing what kind of song you like to listen to,

 why would you prefer certain app over other,

 would you choose to watch something or rather read at times, 

 what kind of food would you prefer for yourself, 

 what kind of outfits are you actually comfortable in,

 what words you say to yourself,

 how you feel about yourself.

 All this little things which aren't so little. This are the things which decide what kind of outlook   

you have towards life, how would you react to things and who are you as a person. This is what helps you grow as an individual.  

Likewise, know yourself all over again, understand yourself better. So could understand the world around you better

Take care of yourself well.

Though, it's important to realize that self-care isn't just holidays and massages. 

It's working on your habits, mindset and healing your past.

It's removing toxic thoughts, patterns, people and places in your life.

It's living intentionally purposefully and consciously. 

Thus, paving a way to your future, where you choose everything for yourself. With no rooms of regret.

Because, life is too short to spend it at war with yourself.

And if something is out of your hands, it deserves freedom from your mind too.

So stop being insecure and bad about what you are not and start feeling confident & content for everything that you are.

          "Life isn't about finding yourself, but creating yourself"          

          Don't forget,

          You are the sky. Everything else is just the weather.

You have no idea how good life is about to get for YOU.

Trust your own timings.

Be yourself.  Love yourself.  Have confidence in yourself.

You got this.

Cheers,

~Kashish K.